Many guys wonder if they are good in bed. Here are some things women like men to know, and some tips about women's bodies:
Try Talking
It's really difficult to talk about sexual pleasure with your partner
- because it's embarrassing and guys often feel like they are supposed
to know everything about their partner – but the more willing
you are to do that, the better the sex will be for both of you.
Not all women are alike, so asking her what she likes really works! Also, sometimes your partner may want to try something different or to change the pace, but she doesn't want to hurt your feelings. Showing that you're willing to learn and experiment will make sex better.
How women like to be touched may be different, but all of their bodies
are built the same. There's an important part of the female body that's
really sensitive called the clitoris. It's above the vagina, just where
her vaginal lips meet. It has lots of nerves and is really sensitive.
Women like it touched in different ways – some like light touch,
some like harder touch, some slow, some fast – you'll have to see
how she responds and, even better, ask her what she likes.
Women like men who:
• Take their time during sex
• Do lots of foreplay
• Focus on giving pleasure to their partner
• Aren't just focused on her crotch, but her whole body
• Ask what feels good and stop and listen when she says it doesn't
feel good
• Don't force her or manipulate her to do things she doesn't want
to do
• Try new things
• Talk and snuggle afterwards
• Ask about birth control
You don't have to know everything about your partner or everything about sex to be a good lover. Talk about it and be open to learning from your partner – it'll make a BIG difference – for both of you!